THE LOVE ARCHITECTS®
REAL Love & Dating Advice

Navigating Love in Turbulent Times

As I prepare to travel back to Aspen, Dallas, and Beverly Hills—a trifecta that may seem glamorous—I’m also acutely aware of the sobering realities we face. The devastating impact of recent hurricanes and the turbulent political landscape serve as poignant reminders of the vital importance of love in our lives. Love is not merely a luxury; it is a necessity that many overlook in the pursuit of comfort and control. True love is something we earn; it requires diligence and dedication—efforts that can feel increasingly daunting in today’s world.

As summer gracefully bows out, giving way to trees adorned in vivid hues of orange, red, yellow, and purple, I reflect on the honor I have in the lives of so many wonderful singles. This role carries with it not only joy but also profound responsibility—to my community and to the world around me. I feel blessed beyond measure.

In my interactions with perfectly flawed humans—many of whom you may recognize from screens big and small—I am reminded of the privilege I hold in guiding them toward meaningful connections. It is a humbling experience, a reminder of the genuine nature of love that we must nurture in order to find it.

So, here’s to real love. Here’s to the opportunity not just to receive love, but to give it—to embody it in our actions and our hearts.

May we all be blessed to cherish each moment, learning from the true gift of love that begins within ourselves.

Stay blessed, everyone.

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THE LOVE ARCHITECTS®
REAL Love & Dating Advice

A Whirlwind Year (thus far): Horses, Hollywood, and Heartstrings

It’s been a wild and blessed ride of a year! From national brand partnerships that have taught me more about authenticity and what’s truly ‘real’, than I could have imagined, to a client’s Montana ranch sprawling across 30,000 acres where I learned to herd cattle on horseback.

But the adventures didn’t stop there. I launched MyLoveDesign.com, a lifelong passion project (an online dating, lifestyle, and wellness platform), teaching people how to prepare for real love, before seeking it. And then there’s the singles ministry for Christians, where we gathered weekly not just to talk about love, but to live it, breathe it, and understand that love without God is like trying to build a house on sand.

Enter stage left: one of Hollywood’s most powerful A-list families invited me into their home in the glitzy heart of Los Angeles, where I not only helped them heal, but taught them about the transformative power of love. Yet, it’s not all glitz and glam; sometimes, it’s about showing them that love is the real magic behind the red carpet. Even in Hollywood, it’s about the heartstrings, not the headlines.

Meanwhile, on the home front, life has been a delightful blur of milestones. My oldest son tied the knot in a wedding that could have been a Hallmark movie, and my youngest graduated college, standing tall and proud, diploma in hand. As a mother, my heart swells with pride, and yes, tears continue to be shed—happy tears, the kind that remind you just how blessed you are.

Amidst all these moments, my mission to introduce and teach singles “who have it all” that real love is the true luxury, continues. These high-fliers, who seemingly have everything, learned that without love, the power, penthouses, and private jets are just empty vessels.

And then, with a heart full of gratitude and a microphone in hand, I relaunched the Love Happy Hour Podcast Show based on strong demand over the last several years. This has allowed me to dive deep into the truths about what stops us from love and, more importantly, how we can break free.

Through it all, I remain passionately on my toes, forever awake to the realities of what blocks us from love. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about the cattle drives or the Hollywood stars, but about helping everyone find the love they truly deserve.

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